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bewov:
Please guys, I desire to propose her around Baronial and settle down with her in November, simply this behaviours are the things turning me off.Will she changed and act normal when we get married, or this will continue? The guys she conversation with, which I told her I don't like information technology, she replied that "She volition never and always go out them". All these types of attitudes and not showing me respect, do you recollect she volition alter after we get married or she will continue?
Please guys, I'm very dislocated here
I am afraid the gal is not the problem here, you are. And If yous tin can, delight go get professional counseling from a certified therapists so they tin maybe play back your own statements to yous and have you reason them out for your own self.. 
You accept all these issues piled upwardly against this aforementioned woman, all the same instead of accepting her every bit she has presented herself to you, you nonetheless call back she will magically modify into a submissive and obedient married woman after yous wednesday her. You need serious help!
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You met in your university days in 2017. Please relax bro. Calm bro. You're too drastic.
30k monthly upkeep is not how to become a "traditional" woman. These things are ideological, not a cause and effect thing. Pay her N1 1000000 monthly, her credo still won't alter!
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Product of a single mother.
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bewov:
Please guys, I have something bothering me and then much, I volition actually appreciate it if I can get a matured response.These might be long, merely delight bare with me
There is this daughter have been dating since March 2021. Although, we met in University days and we have been dating since 2017, merely because I was graduating and she has 1 more than year to spend in the schoolhouse, I left her and travelled to Lagos to work, because I got a job in a company in Lagos, immediately I graduated. I needed to concentrate on my future and so I told her I want to pause the human relationship to focus, but I will definitely be dorsum for her, I promised her this. She was a virgin then!
After working in the company for 2years, I too learnt some It skills online while I was working in the company, and I was earning cool money from it, then I decided to quit the job and focus more on the online business.
My business have been doing well and I have about 2 other virtual assistant helping me out, anyway I was kind of comfy, so I thought of fulfilling my promise to my girlfriend. I called her one morning, and she was shocked! We chatted a bit and I told her I want united states of america to see urgently, nosotros schedule a date for her to meet me in the hotel, because I was staying in Lekki and he stays effectually Surulere, I wanted an hotel shut to her business firm, and so she can return early.
We met at the hotel and I can run across she missed me and so much, around 3pm I told her I'm back and I want us to continue dating and I'one thousand ready to settle downwards, she agreed and we have been dating, all this happened around March 2021. Around April, I travelled out for almost 2months, just I was very communicating with her, and when I got dorsum around June, I discovered she had sexual practice with another guy in May. At present, I wouldn't say she did it because of money, because I pay her 20k every calendar month for upkeep, sometimes I merely pay her 30k! She is non a wayward girl though, and she is not a type that sleeps around with guys back then in school, but once i came back into her life, I see a dissimilar girl entirely, when I came back she wasn't a virgin anymore, information technology's non my trouble anyway, considering the truth is I never forgot her during all those years I left her backside.
I didn't tell her I knew she cheated on me, but all I practise tell her was that she did something bad to me and I want her to open up to me about it, but my daughter kept on denying it, she sworn with her life, that she didn't crook on me, that night I was shocked. And so, I didn't talk about information technology once again till September, I gave her those months to regret her actions and confess to me, simply she never did, likewise I didn't terminate helping her financially, I notwithstanding pay her monthly for upkeep. I know you will be wondering why I give her money, correct? This daughter was with me and loyal to me when I had zippo, similar nothing at all! She was raised past a single mother and she is struggling a lot, after graduating she decided to go for Hair Stylist training, that is where she is currently. So I just give her money monthly simply to stay strong.
So around September I decided to tell her she cheated on me, although it was that once, she begged, cried and told me she was drunk and regretted it, she told me she doesn't want to tell me considering she knows I will finish the relationship, well to be aboveboard I honey her so much, then I decided to forgive her, but since that day, trusting her was very very difficult for me. Although, I practise sentry her and since so I have never seen anything of such from her.
Jan 2022, her mother stopped her from coming to my place, she wants me to come see her first before she tin allow her girl to come visit me again. So, I went to see her mom last month and I made my intentions known to her, I told her I volition want to ally her daughter and she said she is okay with it, if her girl is okay with me.
This girl is my type of girl but, she has some behaviours that sincerely I don't think I can deal with.
She has this mindset of "A adult female should be equal to a man".
She doesn't respect me, she chats with random guys and if they invite her for outing, she goes with them, fifty-fifty if I tell her non to go! When she visits me, she says I must join her in doing the house chores, she will say "Information technology'due south either you clean the firm and I will wash the plates and melt, or she wash the plates and cook, while I make clean the house". And sometimes if she wants to cook for me, she will want me to come to the kitchen with her and exercise some works, maybe Grind pepper with blender or slice onion, if I dont, she gets annoyed, maxim will she exist the i to exist doing all?
She did something that annoyed me this forenoon, effectually 6am today I went to the filling station to go petrol, well she knows I eat early ever, mayhap 6am or 7am, I would accept taken breakfast, but she has never dished me nutrient at that time, I always practice it myself whenever she is around. When I got back from the filling station, I withal met my girlfriend on the bed pressing her phone, I told her I'one thousand hungry and I volition desire to swallow Spaghetti with tomato plant sauce, and she replied "Baby, please cook information technology yourself, you said I'm your queen, pamper me na"
Really? What does that accept to exercise with you cooking for your fiance?
Well, I was bellyaching, I went to the kitchen and prepared the food myself, the truth is when the food was set up, I only dished my own and ate, she said "What about her? Won't she eat?" I didn't respond her!
Bated from this, sincerely sometimes she talks to me rudely, and one thing she and I knows is that she is very very stubborn and not set to submit to any man. Sincerely, this attitude is making me scared of settling downward with her, I desire to propose her this year and practice the marriage rights simply with all this behaviours I'm thinking the spousal relationship will exist hell for me.
When she came over yesterday, I prepared food for her before her inflow, and I served her, all she could say was "What is this? The food sense of taste bad! Is this food or toxicant?" She never gave a expert compliments about the meal, even so she finished the food and went for second round.
Last night before we went to bed, I told her to warm the rice and the stew, she said information technology won't get spoilt that she will do it in the morning, I asked her if she is sure, she said Yes. And I went to the kitchen before preparing my Spaghetti, I saw the rice is already bad and can't be eaten, I showed it to her and she was like "haaa she doesn't know information technology will spoil"
Too, the chicken I bought yesterday to cook her the repast, I couldn't use all, I left some in the pot, and I forgot to warm it last night, my girl saw it while washing the plates this morning, and she was similar "What is this?" I told her chicken and she said "And you didn't warm information technology" she left it there in the pot similar that without doing anything to revive it. Earlier I went to the kitchen to practise it myself!
She only done the plates, bath and went to church this morning, she didn't arrange the bed, nor sweep the room littered with all we ate final night. I'thou sure of the message she is passing to me... "Take done the plates, you make clean the house".
Please guys, I want to suggest her around August and settle down with her in November, just this behaviours are the things turning me off.
Will she changed and act normal when we go married, or this will keep? The guys she conversation with, which I told her I don't like information technology, she replied that "She will never and e'er leave them". All these types of attitudes and not showing me respect, do you think she will alter after we get married or she volition continue?
Please guys, I'k very confused here
with all this you withal want to suggest
una no dy ever larn
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Virginity you lot didn't have.
Submission she no dey give you.
She cheated on yous before.
You lot are paying her monthly budget.
Shes giving yous the vibe of unmarried parent .
She doesn't respect you lot( the worst)
And the OP is withal fooling himself, are you lot cursed or what mumu OP.
OP I beg you in the name of GOD. Dont get into spousal relationship with that human. You wont reach 50 before you die.
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NwaAmaikpe:
I think you lot should marry her.
Why would you let her being a crook get in the manner of what you share?
I can non pay 20k monthly subscription on kpekus since March 2021 till appointment and allow it get downward the bleed merely because I know the woman is no good to my futurity.
It doesn't thing if she cheats on you, talks back at y'all, demands equality or isn't homely, what matters is love.
As long as you lot honey her, the to the lowest degree you tin exercise for a lady who stood by you lot when you had nothing is to stand up by her and be supportive of all her dreams.As she's gone to church, surprise her.
Lookout man some YouTube videos on how to melt the perfect Sun stew or read up some of Pocohantas 's cooking topics so you can serve her the best possible meal with an amends letter for being irresponsible enough not to warm the chicken this morning.That'southward how to pamper a woman.
If she wants to go hang out with other men, only beg her not to sleep over with them. If she insists she wants to slumber over with them, beg her not to take sex with them. If she insists she wants to have sex with them, then beg her to tell them not to cum within her.
Only if they do and she brings back a bastard baby home, allow the Christian in you love her and the babe simply like Christ has loved the church.
If you really love a woman, you shouldn't be scared of annihilation. Just be reassured that no affair how many preeks she fvcks outside, she'd be back to you.
All you need is love.My Bible tells me in 1st John iv:18 that "There is no fear in dear; but perfect love casteth out fear,"
Work on yourself, throw away your insecurities, spend more time in the kitchen, learn to care for that woman like a queen and don't stop loving her for the peril she is.
You have 5months to prepare a heed-blowing public proposal and 8months to happily walk into your unhappy future, at present is the time to hire the best issue planners so you create a lasting impression.
The good part is that if you lot marry her, you won't need to be paying that 20k monthly subscription. You can then channel information technology to buying Valium 5 for the sleepless nights she'south going to torment yous with.
Over to Lalasticlala and the other elders.
Chaiii.... Yous don dey quote Bible besides?
Wonders shall never end!
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Efrebo you ho wound oo
Be conscientious
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bewov:
Please guys, I accept something bothering me so much, I will actually appreciate it if I tin can get a matured response.These might be long, but please bare with me
There is this girl take been dating since March 2021. Although, nosotros met in University days and we take been dating since 2017, only because I was graduating and she has 1 more year to spend in the school, I left her and travelled to Lagos to work, because I got a job in a company in Lagos, immediately I graduated. I needed to concentrate on my futurity so I told her I want to pause the relationship to focus, but I will definitely be back for her, I promised her this. She was a virgin and so!
After working in the company for 2years, I as well learnt some Information technology skills online while I was working in the company, and I was earning cool money from it, so I decided to quit the job and focus more on the online business organisation.
My business organisation have been doing well and I have well-nigh 2 other virtual banana helping me out, anyway I was kind of comfortable, and then I idea of fulfilling my promise to my girlfriend. I chosen her 1 morning, and she was shocked! We chatted a bit and I told her I want us to run into urgently, we schedule a date for her to meet me in the hotel, because I was staying in Lekki and he stays around Surulere, I wanted an hotel shut to her house, and so she can render early.
We met at the hotel and I tin see she missed me so much, around 3pm I told her I'm back and I want us to continue dating and I'm fix to settle downwards, she agreed and nosotros have been dating, all this happened effectually March 2021. Around April, I travelled out for about 2months, but I was very communicating with her, and when I got back effectually June, I discovered she had sexual activity with another guy in May. At present, I wouldn't say she did it because of money, because I pay her 20k every month for upkeep, sometimes I only pay her 30k! She is not a wayward girl though, and she is not a type that sleeps around with guys back then in school, but once i came back into her life, I see a dissimilar girl entirely, when I came back she wasn't a virgin anymore, it's not my problem anyway, considering the truth is I never forgot her during all those years I left her behind.
I didn't tell her I knew she cheated on me, but all I practice tell her was that she did something bad to me and I want her to open to me about it, simply my girl kept on denying information technology, she sworn with her life, that she didn't crook on me, that night I was shocked. Then, I didn't talk nigh it once more till September, I gave her those months to regret her deportment and confess to me, simply she never did, also I didn't stop helping her financially, I withal pay her monthly for upkeep. I know y'all will be wondering why I give her money, right? This girl was with me and loyal to me when I had nothing, like null at all! She was raised past a single mother and she is struggling a lot, subsequently graduating she decided to go for Hair Stylist training, that is where she is currently. So I only requite her money monthly only to stay stiff.
So around September I decided to tell her she cheated on me, although it was that once, she begged, cried and told me she was drunk and regretted it, she told me she doesn't want to tell me because she knows I will end the relationship, well to be candid I dear her so much, and then I decided to forgive her, but since that 24-hour interval, trusting her was very very difficult for me. Although, I do watch her and since then I have never seen anything of such from her.
January 2022, her mother stopped her from coming to my place, she wants me to come see her commencement earlier she can allow her girl to come up visit me again. Then, I went to run into her mom last month and I fabricated my intentions known to her, I told her I will want to ally her daughter and she said she is okay with it, if her daughter is okay with me.
This girl is my type of girl just, she has some behaviours that sincerely I don't think I can deal with.
She has this mindset of "A adult female should exist equal to a homo".
She doesn't respect me, she chats with random guys and if they invite her for outing, she goes with them, even if I tell her non to go! When she visits me, she says I must join her in doing the house chores, she will say "Information technology's either you make clean the house and I volition wash the plates and cook, or she wash the plates and cook, while I clean the house". And sometimes if she wants to cook for me, she volition want me to come to the kitchen with her and do some works, mayhap Grind pepper with blender or slice onion, if I dont, she gets annoyed, saying will she be the one to be doing all?
She did something that annoyed me this forenoon, around 6am today I went to the filling station to get petrol, well she knows I swallow early always, peradventure 6am or 7am, I would have taken breakfast, simply she has never dished me nutrient at that time, I always do it myself whenever she is around. When I got back from the filling station, I all the same met my girlfriend on the bed pressing her telephone, I told her I'm hungry and I will want to eat Spaghetti with lycopersicon esculentum sauce, and she replied "Infant, please cook it yourself, you lot said I'm your queen, pamper me na"
Well, I was annoyed, I went to the kitchen and prepared the food myself, the truth is when the food was ready, I just dished my own and ate, she said "What nigh her? Won't she consume?" I didn't answer her!
Aside from this, sincerely sometimes she talks to me rudely, and i thing she and I knows is that she is very very stubborn and not gear up to submit to any man. Sincerely, this attitude is making me scared of settling down with her, I want to propose her this year and do the marriage rights but with all this behaviours I'm thinking the marriage will exist hell for me.
When she came over yesterday, I prepared nutrient for her before her arrival, and I served her, all she could say was "What is this? The food gustatory modality bad! Is this food or poison?" She never gave a good compliments virtually the meal, still she finished the food and went for second round.
Last night earlier we went to bed, I told her to warm the rice and the stew, she said it won't get spoilt that she will do it in the morning, I asked her if she is sure, she said Yep. And I went to the kitchen earlier preparing my Spaghetti, I saw the rice is already bad and can't be eaten, I showed it to her and she was like "haaa she doesn't know information technology will spoil"
Also, the craven I bought yesterday to cook her the repast, I couldn't use all, I left some in the pot, and I forgot to warm information technology last dark, my girl saw it while washing the plates this morning time, and she was like "What is this?" I told her chicken and she said "And yous didn't warm information technology" she left information technology at that place in the pot like that without doing annihilation to revive information technology. Before I went to the kitchen to practise it myself!
She only done the plates, bathroom and went to church building this morning, she didn't arrange the bed, nor sweep the room littered with all nosotros ate last night. I'1000 sure of the bulletin she is passing to me... "Have washed the plates, y'all make clean the house".
Please guys, I want to propose her around August and settle down with her in November, just this behaviours are the things turning me off.
Will she inverse and act normal when we go married, or this will keep? The guys she chat with, which I told her I don't like information technology, she replied that "She will never and ever leave them". All these types of attitudes and not showing me respect, do you lot think she will modify after we get married or she will continue?
Delight guys, I'm very dislocated hither
Brought upwardly by unmarried mother is already a disqualification
It'due south been preached hither many times
Union is transactional not honey, one day you'll wake and you won't feel the love anymore at this point you'll try to manage by her character, attitude and goodness but yous won't detect any
You'll be highly disgusted
Girls from unmarried mothers are merely there to punish men
Funny plenty there are mostly beautiful that's why they think the world revolves around them
I had this girl too who had that feminism mindset but damn beautiful, I left for practiced.
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Bleep okpo make you wise. Marriage is not by force.
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bewov:
Please guys, I take something bothering me and so much, I volition really appreciate it if I tin become a matured response.These might be long, but please bare with me
There is this girl accept been dating since March 2021. Although, we met in University days and we have been dating since 2017, but because I was graduating and she has one more year to spend in the school, I left her and travelled to Lagos to work, because I got a job in a company in Lagos, immediately I graduated. I needed to concentrate on my future so I told her I desire to suspension the relationship to focus, simply I will definitely be dorsum for her, I promised her this. She was a virgin and then!
After working in the company for 2years, I also learnt some It skills online while I was working in the company, and I was earning cool money from it, then I decided to quit the job and focus more than on the online business.
My business have been doing well and I have about two other virtual banana helping me out, anyway I was kind of comfortable, so I thought of fulfilling my hope to my girlfriend. I chosen her one morning, and she was shocked! We chatted a bit and I told her I want united states of america to run across urgently, we schedule a date for her to meet me in the hotel, considering I was staying in Lekki and he stays around Surulere, I wanted an hotel close to her business firm, so she can return early.
We met at the hotel and I can run across she missed me so much, around 3pm I told her I'm back and I desire us to keep dating and I'm fix to settle down, she agreed and we have been dating, all this happened around March 2021. Around Apr, I travelled out for near 2months, merely I was very communicating with her, and when I got dorsum around June, I discovered she had sex with another guy in May. At present, I wouldn't say she did it because of money, because I pay her 20k every month for upkeep, sometimes I but pay her 30k! She is not a wayward daughter though, and she is not a type that sleeps around with guys back then in school, merely once i came back into her life, I see a different girl entirely, when I came back she wasn't a virgin anymore, it'southward not my problem anyway, because the truth is I never forgot her during all those years I left her behind.
I didn't tell her I knew she cheated on me, but all I exercise tell her was that she did something bad to me and I want her to open to me about it, just my girl kept on denying it, she sworn with her life, that she didn't crook on me, that night I was shocked. Then, I didn't talk about it again till September, I gave her those months to regret her actions and confess to me, but she never did, as well I didn't stop helping her financially, I still pay her monthly for upkeep. I know you volition exist wondering why I give her coin, right? This daughter was with me and loyal to me when I had nothing, like nothing at all! She was raised by a single mother and she is struggling a lot, after graduating she decided to go for Hair Stylist preparation, that is where she is currently. So I merely requite her money monthly just to stay strong.
So effectually September I decided to tell her she cheated on me, although information technology was that once, she begged, cried and told me she was drunk and regretted it, she told me she doesn't want to tell me because she knows I will terminate the human relationship, well to be candid I honey her and then much, so I decided to forgive her, merely since that day, trusting her was very very difficult for me. Although, I do watch her and since then I have never seen anything of such from her.
January 2022, her mother stopped her from coming to my place, she wants me to come see her first before she tin permit her daughter to come visit me again. So, I went to run across her mom final month and I made my intentions known to her, I told her I volition want to marry her girl and she said she is okay with it, if her girl is okay with me.
This girl is my type of girl only, she has some behaviours that sincerely I don't think I tin can deal with.
She has this mindset of "A adult female should be equal to a man".
She doesn't respect me, she chats with random guys and if they invite her for outing, she goes with them, fifty-fifty if I tell her non to go! When she visits me, she says I must bring together her in doing the firm chores, she will say "It's either you clean the business firm and I will launder the plates and cook, or she wash the plates and cook, while I make clean the business firm". And sometimes if she wants to cook for me, she will want me to come up to the kitchen with her and exercise some works, peradventure Grind pepper with blender or slice onion, if I dont, she gets annoyed, saying will she be the one to be doing all?
She did something that bellyaching me this morn, around 6am today I went to the filling station to get petrol, well she knows I eat early on always, maybe 6am or 7am, I would accept taken breakfast, but she has never dished me food at that time, I always do information technology myself whenever she is around. When I got back from the filling station, I still met my girlfriend on the bed pressing her telephone, I told her I'g hungry and I volition want to eat Spaghetti with tomato sauce, and she replied "Babe, please cook it yourself, you said I'one thousand your queen, pamper me na"
Well, I was annoyed, I went to the kitchen and prepared the food myself, the truth is when the food was set, I only dished my own and ate, she said "What about her? Won't she eat?" I didn't answer her!
Bated from this, sincerely sometimes she talks to me rudely, and one thing she and I knows is that she is very very stubborn and not gear up to submit to any human being. Sincerely, this attitude is making me scared of settling down with her, I want to suggest her this yr and practice the marriage rights merely with all this behaviours I'g thinking the spousal relationship volition be hell for me.
When she came over yesterday, I prepared food for her before her inflow, and I served her, all she could say was "What is this? The food taste bad! Is this nutrient or poisonous substance?" She never gave a expert compliments virtually the repast, yet she finished the food and went for 2nd round.
Last dark earlier nosotros went to bed, I told her to warm the rice and the stew, she said it won't become spoilt that she will do information technology in the morning, I asked her if she is sure, she said Yes. And I went to the kitchen before preparing my Spaghetti, I saw the rice is already bad and can't be eaten, I showed it to her and she was like "haaa she doesn't know it will spoil"
Also, the chicken I bought yesterday to cook her the meal, I couldn't use all, I left some in the pot, and I forgot to warm it concluding dark, my daughter saw it while washing the plates this forenoon, and she was like "What is this?" I told her chicken and she said "And you didn't warm it" she left it there in the pot like that without doing anything to revive information technology. Earlier I went to the kitchen to practice it myself!
She but washed the plates, bathroom and went to church this forenoon, she didn't adapt the bed, nor sweep the room littered with all we ate concluding night. I'm sure of the message she is passing to me... "Have washed the plates, yous make clean the house".
Please guys, I want to propose her around August and settle down with her in Nov, but this behaviours are the things turning me off.
Will she changed and deed normal when we get married, or this will continue? The guys she chat with, which I told her I don't like it, she replied that "She volition never and ever leave them". All these types of attitudes and non showing me respect, practice yous think she volition change later we become married or she will proceed?
Please guys, I'yard very confused here
Wetin u wan make them tell yous again, your mumu neva too much? No go allow emotions over cloud your logical reasoning oh, that daughter no deserve any man even mad man
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How do you guys pay monthly *Upkeep Money* to your Girlfriends sef?
If i tries it... My ancestors will be mad at me.
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bewov:
Please guys, I have something bothering me so much, I will really appreciate it if I can go a matured response.These might be long, simply delight bare with me
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Volition she changed and act normal when we go married, or this will go on? The guys she chat with, which I told her I don't like information technology, she replied that "She will never and always get out them". All these types of attitudes and non showing me respect, practice you think she will alter subsequently we get married or she will continue?Please guys, I'1000 very confused here
Yous are playing with fire.
For a man respect is everything, meanwhile you are forming pity-patty and leading yourself on with the hope that a cat would become a lion once it gets married to a tiger.
Matrimony is tough, this girl is not ready for that phone call. She is probably merely 24/26 and ill mannered.
Walk away. Slowly.
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Stop being a slave to your emotion/lust and likewise strive to redefine your concept of love because the ane you take in place is wack. The woman y'all have in mitt is a contentious, selfish, lazy, and untrustworthy adult female, and given your displeasure about her exhibition of these attributes, it means that she is not good for you. And then, leave her and await for another adult female. Merely strive to conquer yourself first before looking for another woman.
Meanwhile, eschew the idea that women and men are not equal; all human beings are equal. The two genders are unlike in some ways - difference does not automatically mean inequality. That a woman believes that the female and male person genders are equal, which is truthful, does not automatically make her a bad adult female, provided that she does not possess similar character similar the present woman in your life.
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frozen70:All these her characters are pure reddish flag, it's left for you lot to deal with it or not
But from my cess, she is the type that "tin can't come and impale herself "
Love is not enough to concord marriage
Character of the person is the major point especially now that the world is galloping
If you don't like the feeling you get later eating yam, don't eat pounded yam
This one also dey. I never hear am earlier.
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First off, to all the ladies that says guys doesn't forgive a cheating girlfriend, shebi una don see am. It'south only that most guys no dey loud am. Saw a screenshot before today from twitter, a lady bodly say, and i quote "i talk hot shit on twitter but if a man i love ask me to make him fufu at midnight imma practice it. I hope this answers every question you have and likewise intending ones. Peace
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I think you know what to do. You are just holding on to the relationship crusade you feel you've spent and given a lot. The fear of starting over/being lonely also comes to mind. Bro, it's all-time you move on. Information technology'southward true you can never be ready or sure when it comes to matrimony, merely then, i believe marriage is something no one should take illusional chances on. Wedlock no be 2 years holiday bro, its meant to be a lifetime commitment. Count your losses & move on.. she's simply 1 out of 4 billion women of which a vast pct are single. You lot'll exist fine..
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With all these redflags......hmmmmmm
I am scared, actually scared for you lot bro
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TBH. I don't know the advice u demand. With all the red flags u shud be wise. Let's fifty-fifty assume she even gave u her virginity and u are the only guy she ever has yet u shud not be this daft and hoping she'd change. Lailai.
It's ameliorate u append everything and decide for ursef. Whatever concur she got on u I tin can't even fathom. Don't be a simp. Be the alpha. Exist the boss.
Infact, with all these red flags u av more than enuf reasons to tell it to her face that u cant cope unless she is ready to change. Well, people will say why didn't u act earlier but its ameliorate they ask that at present than when u eventually get married. This is a sign of a adult female who would show u pepper when she eventually wields power. Power is when u finally marry her, when she gets a very skilful paying task, when u make up one's mind to take her abroad etc.
Pls exist wise bro.
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you improve dump that girl at present
she feels that you tin can never go out her.
when you tell her that you intend to break upwardly with her, she will get-go behaving well.
but don't change your heed on it, break up with her
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My brother! Yous MUMU o!! Then u tin can't become a better daughter to date? What exactly is your problem?
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ShenTeh:This one too dey. I never hear am before.
It means if you don't like a particular meat,
Don't share it with your teeth
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NwaAmaikpe:
I call up you should ally her.
Why would you let her being a crook get in the mode of what you share?
I can non pay 20k monthly subscription on kpekus since March 2021 till engagement and permit it go down the bleed only because I know the woman is no practiced to my time to come.
It doesn't matter if she cheats on y'all, talks back at you, demands equality or isn't homely, what matters is love.
As long as you dearest her, the least you tin can do for a lady who stood by yous when you had cypher is to stand by her and be supportive of all her dreams.Every bit she's gone to church building, surprise her.
Watch some YouTube videos on how to melt the perfect Sunday stew or read up some of Pocohantas 's cooking topics so yous tin serve her the best possible meal with an amends letter for existence irresponsible enough non to warm the chicken this morning time.That's how to pamper a adult female.
If she wants to go hang out with other men, but beg her not to sleep over with them. If she insists she wants to sleep over with them, beg her not to have sex with them. If she insists she wants to have sexual practice with them, then beg her to tell them not to cum inside her.
But if they do and she brings back a bastard baby home, allow the Christian in you dear her and the baby just like Christ has loved the church.
If you really dear a woman, you shouldn't be scared of annihilation. But exist reassured that no matter how many preeks she fvcks outside, she'd be back to you.
All you need is dear.My Bible tells me in 1st John 4:xviii that "At that place is no fear in love; but perfect love casteth out fear,"
Work on yourself, throw away your insecurities, spend more than fourth dimension in the kitchen, acquire to treat that woman like a queen and don't stop loving her for the peril she is.
You have 5months to prepare a mind-blowing public proposal and 8months to happily walk into your unhappy future, at present is the fourth dimension to hire the best consequence planners so y'all create a lasting impression.
The good function is that if you lot marry her, you won't need to exist paying that 20k monthly subscription. Y'all can then channel it to buying Valium 5 for the sleepless nights she's going to torment you lot with.
Over to Lalasticlala and the other elders.
Very SIMPlified answer
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This life is so unfair. People who don't deserve oxygen have it in excess while those who demand it are without it forever.
A waste of natural resources.
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Oga your story too long! Gerrout! Na past force to marry?
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Marry her then that you lot tin open another thread in September to write some other epistle.
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Daytrader1:Wetin u wan make them tell you again, your mumu neva besides much? No go allow emotions over cloud your logical reasoning oh, that girl no deserve any man fifty-fifty mad man
na 'lover boy' she deserve.
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Nollywood blockbuster
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@bemov, dont use your resources to bring sadness into your future marital journeying. in that location are spinsters that are not 'marriage-able' ... no try am! say, yous wan wife those blazon of ladies. In marriage, a married woman/husband is suppose to be a companion. A companion is someone you lot will be happy and be peaceful with. Na your manus the pocketknife and yam dey with...
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Why practice fools autumn in love
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NwaAmaikpe:
I think you lot should marry her.
Why would you lot let her being a cheat get in the style of what you share?
I can non pay 20k monthly subscription on kpekus since March 2021 till date and permit it go down the drain only because I know the woman is no good to my future.
It doesn't affair if she cheats on you, talks dorsum at you, demands equality or isn't homely, what matters is honey.
As long as you dearest her, the least you can do for a lady who stood by you when you had nothing is to stand past her and be supportive of all her dreams.As she'south gone to church building, surprise her.
Sentinel some YouTube videos on how to cook the perfect Sunday stew or read up some of Pocohantas 's cooking topics so you can serve her the all-time possible meal with an apology letter of the alphabet for beingness irresponsible plenty not to warm the craven this morning.That's how to pamper a woman.
If she wants to go hang out with other men, merely beg her non to sleep over with them. If she insists she wants to slumber over with them, beg her non to take sex with them. If she insists she wants to accept sex with them, and so beg her to tell them not to cum inside her.
Just if they do and she brings back a bastard baby dwelling house, let the Christian in you love her and the baby just like Christ has loved the church.
If you actually beloved a woman, y'all shouldn't be scared of anything. Merely be reassured that no matter how many preeks she fvcks outside, she'd exist back to you.
All yous need is dear.My Bible tells me in 1st John 4:18 that "There is no fear in love; but perfect beloved casteth out fear,"
Work on yourself, throw away your insecurities, spend more than time in the kitchen, larn to treat that adult female like a queen and don't finish loving her for the peril she is.
You have 5months to set a heed-blowing public proposal and 8months to happily walk into your unhappy future, now is the time to hire the best event planners so you create a lasting impression.
The proficient office is that if you marry her, you lot won't demand to be paying that 20k monthly subscription. Yous can so channel it to ownership Valium 5 for the sleepless nights she's going to torment you with.
Over to Lalasticlala and the other elders.
kinda controversal advice with points on it will they dumb Op reason with his head or with his tiny dick 
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bewov:
Please guys, I take something bothering me then much, I will really appreciate it if I can get a matured response.These might be long, but please bare with me
There is this girl have been dating since March 2021. Although, we met in University days and we have been dating since 2017, but considering I was graduating and she has 1 more than year to spend in the school, I left her and travelled to Lagos to piece of work, considering I got a task in a company in Lagos, immediately I graduated. I needed to concentrate on my future so I told her I want to interruption the relationship to focus, but I will definitely be dorsum for her, I promised her this. She was a virgin then!
Later working in the company for 2years, I also learnt some IT skills online while I was working in the company, and I was earning cool coin from it, and so I decided to quit the job and focus more on the online business organization.
My business accept been doing well and I have about two other virtual assistant helping me out, anyway I was kind of comfortable, and then I thought of fulfilling my promise to my girlfriend. I called her one morning, and she was shocked! We chatted a scrap and I told her I desire u.s.a. to run into urgently, nosotros schedule a date for her to meet me in the hotel, because I was staying in Lekki and he stays around Surulere, I wanted an hotel close to her house, and then she can render early.
We met at the hotel and I tin run across she missed me and so much, effectually 3pm I told her I'1000 back and I desire u.s. to continue dating and I'm gear up to settle down, she agreed and we have been dating, all this happened effectually March 2021. Around Apr, I travelled out for about 2months, just I was very communicating with her, and when I got back around June, I discovered she had sexual practice with another guy in May. Now, I wouldn't say she did information technology because of money, because I pay her 20k every month for upkeep, sometimes I just pay her 30k! She is non a wayward daughter though, and she is not a blazon that sleeps around with guys back then in school, but in one case i came back into her life, I encounter a different daughter entirely, when I came back she wasn't a virgin anymore, it'due south not my problem anyway, considering the truth is I never forgot her during all those years I left her backside.
I didn't tell her I knew she cheated on me, but all I do tell her was that she did something bad to me and I want her to open upwardly to me about information technology, but my daughter kept on denying it, she sworn with her life, that she didn't cheat on me, that dark I was shocked. Then, I didn't talk near it again till September, I gave her those months to regret her actions and confess to me, only she never did, also I didn't stop helping her financially, I still pay her monthly for budget. I know you lot will be wondering why I requite her money, right? This girl was with me and loyal to me when I had zilch, like zilch at all! She was raised by a single mother and she is struggling a lot, afterward graduating she decided to go for Hair Stylist training, that is where she is currently. So I just give her coin monthly just to stay strong.
And then around September I decided to tell her she cheated on me, although it was that once, she begged, cried and told me she was drunkard and regretted it, she told me she doesn't want to tell me considering she knows I will end the relationship, well to be candid I dearest her so much, so I decided to forgive her, merely since that solar day, trusting her was very very difficult for me. Although, I do picket her and since and so I have never seen anything of such from her.
January 2022, her mother stopped her from coming to my identify, she wants me to come see her start before she can permit her girl to come up visit me again. So, I went to see her mom last month and I made my intentions known to her, I told her I will want to ally her daughter and she said she is okay with it, if her girl is okay with me.
This girl is my type of girl but, she has some behaviours that sincerely I don't think I can bargain with.
She has this mindset of "A woman should be equal to a man".
She doesn't respect me, she chats with random guys and if they invite her for outing, she goes with them, even if I tell her not to go! When she visits me, she says I must join her in doing the house chores, she will say "It'south either you clean the house and I will launder the plates and cook, or she wash the plates and melt, while I make clean the house". And sometimes if she wants to melt for me, she will want me to come to the kitchen with her and do some works, maybe Grind pepper with blender or piece onion, if I dont, she gets bellyaching, proverb will she be the 1 to be doing all?
She did something that annoyed me this morning, around 6am today I went to the filling station to get petrol, well she knows I swallow early on always, perchance 6am or 7am, I would accept taken breakfast, but she has never dished me food at that fourth dimension, I ever practice it myself whenever she is around. When I got back from the filling station, I still met my girlfriend on the bed pressing her phone, I told her I'm hungry and I will want to eat Spaghetti with lycopersicon esculentum sauce, and she replied "Babe, delight cook it yourself, y'all said I'm your queen, pamper me na"
Well, I was bellyaching, I went to the kitchen and prepared the food myself, the truth is when the food was ready, I only dished my ain and ate, she said "What about her? Won't she consume?" I didn't answer her!
Aside from this, sincerely sometimes she talks to me rudely, and one thing she and I knows is that she is very very stubborn and non gear up to submit to whatsoever man. Sincerely, this mental attitude is making me scared of settling downwards with her, I desire to propose her this year and do the marriage rights simply with all this behaviours I'm thinking the marriage will be hell for me.
When she came over yesterday, I prepared nutrient for her earlier her arrival, and I served her, all she could say was "What is this? The food taste bad! Is this food or toxicant?" She never gave a practiced compliments about the meal, all the same she finished the food and went for second circular.
Last night before we went to bed, I told her to warm the rice and the stew, she said it won't get spoilt that she volition practise it in the morning, I asked her if she is sure, she said Yes. And I went to the kitchen earlier preparing my Spaghetti, I saw the rice is already bad and tin can't be eaten, I showed it to her and she was like "haaa she doesn't know it will spoil"
Besides, the craven I bought yesterday to melt her the meal, I couldn't use all, I left some in the pot, and I forgot to warm it last dark, my daughter saw information technology while washing the plates this morning, and she was like "What is this?" I told her chicken and she said "And yous didn't warm it" she left it there in the pot like that without doing anything to revive information technology. Earlier I went to the kitchen to do it myself!
She only washed the plates, bath and went to church building this morning time, she didn't arrange the bed, nor sweep the room littered with all we ate last night. I'm sure of the bulletin she is passing to me... "Have washed the plates, you clean the firm".
Please guys, I want to propose her around Baronial and settle down with her in November, merely this behaviours are the things turning me off.
Will she changed and act normal when nosotros get married, or this will continue? The guys she chat with, which I told her I don't like it, she replied that "She will never and ever exit them". All these types of attitudes and not showing me respect, practise you remember she will change later on nosotros get married or she will continue?
Please guys, I'm very dislocated here
The outermost part of your soul is trully your Emotions.
Y'all see how emotional love is blinding yous?
This i na articulate danger, exist like person send you go Ukraine...and u packed your purse..off you go.
Well, allow me tell u my story.
My girlfriend is very beautiful...she has all the physical package a guy wants in a woman.
She loves me and I dear her too...
We aren't cheating on each other...we are trying our all-time to exist faithful.
But I have been noticing unsual characters in her...(far from cheating) combined with her weaknesses she has refused to admit and outgrow or change for amend.
Knowing all these, I know what the time to come looks like.
I took a very bold and eye breaking step out of the human relationship...mind you..I didn't tell her...
I close off communication which is the life blood of every relationship.
I am feeling bad that we are breaking up and I am the initiator...
because she so attractive, the tin de do me somehow for torso to leave her for some other human to be dating.
But, my future is more of import to me than her beauty that will shortly fade out.
And so I took the assuming step out bro....east de pain me oo......but I know say na emotional pain exist that and information technology doesn't last....before one month at present, she volition be forgotten completely as if we never knew.
Why I de share this story give u be say...na the daughter Pretty face and sweet pussy the push your mumu button automatically.
She knows you are obsessed with her that'south why she would exist acting foolish, even though you are her sponsor.
Oga, danm your emotion and forget what men volition say..for your adept life.
Cheers
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This ane strong
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